They speak - they lie, deceive, coerce, steal, take advantage of the vulnerable, they're greedy, think only of themselves (NPD), thing they're saying 'just the right thing' to smooth things over (Delusions and really, really stupid). Hmmmm, that ex-sibling of mine is a lot like that as well. She's right up there with the worst of them! (I have no sister anymore by the way - never really did) - just one that got adopted out that I don't remember and have no idea how to find her. Wait, there are a lot of women that are like this, actually. It's just more noticeable in men because they're more stupid, whereas women are much more careful/sneaky. Ah fuck, I hate everybody!